The Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation
Those who approach the sacrament of Penance obtain pardon from God's mercy for the offense committed against him, and are, at the same time, reconciled with the Church which they have wounded by their sins and which by charity, by example, and by prayer labors for their conversion.
Confession catches the sinner in his fall away from God… It makes visible the fact that the Church turns to all sinners… I have been baptized, but I do not live according to the rule of baptism. I have been confirmed, but I am no apostle of Christ. I do attend Mass, but it remains incomprehensible for me… Saints are shown to me, but I am simply not one… But if I am told that the confessional is reserved for sinners, then I know that here finally is a place for me; it is precisely I who am meant. The pew there was especially made for me” (Adrienne Von Speyr, Confession, 93-94).
No matter if you go to confession regularly, or haven’t been in years the Father is longing to run to you and welcome you home.
First Reconciliation
Children who are at least seven years old may prepare to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation for the first time. Formation begins before first reception of the Eucharist.
Confession catches the sinner in his fall away from God… It makes visible the fact that the Church turns to all sinners… I have been baptized, but I do not live according to the rule of baptism. I have been confirmed, but I am no apostle of Christ. I do attend Mass, but it remains incomprehensible for me… Saints are shown to me, but I am simply not one… But if I am told that the confessional is reserved for sinners, then I know that here finally is a place for me; it is precisely I who am meant. The pew there was especially made for me” (Adrienne Von Speyr, Confession, 93-94).
No matter if you go to confession regularly, or haven’t been in years the Father is longing to run to you and welcome you home.
First Reconciliation
Children who are at least seven years old may prepare to celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation for the first time. Formation begins before first reception of the Eucharist.
Examination of conscience for children up to age 10
| Examination of Conscience for Children up to Age 10 |
EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE for children 10-14
| Examination of Conscience for Children Ages 10-14 |
EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE for High Schoolers and adults
| Examination of Conscience for High Schoolers and Adults |
EXAMINATION OF CONSCIENCE using scripture
| Examination of Conscience Using Scripture |
Frequently asked questions about reconciliation
From the Compendium of the Catechism of the Catholic Church
(the numbers refer to paragraphs in the Catechism of the Catholic Church):
Q: What is the name of this sacrament?
A: It is called the sacrament of Penance, the sacrament of Reconciliation, the sacrament of Forgiveness, the sacrament of Confession, and the sacrament of Conversion. (1422-1424)
Q: Why is there a sacrament of Reconciliation after Baptism?
A: Since the new life of grace received in Baptism does not abolish the weakness of human nature nor the inclination to sin (that is, concupiscence), Christ instituted this sacrament for the conversion of the baptized who have been separated from him by sin. (1425-1426, 1484)
Q: When did he institute this sacrament?
A: The risen Lord instituted this sacrament on the evening of Easter when he showed himself to his Apostles and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained” (John 20:22-23). (1485) 299. Do the baptized have need of conversion? The call of Christ to conversion continues to resound in the lives of the baptized. Conversion is a continuing obligation for the whole Church. She is holy but includes sinners in her midst. (1427-1429)
Q: What is interior penance?
A: It is the movement of a “contrite heart” (Psalm 51:17) drawn by divine grace to respond to the merciful love of God. This entails sorrow for and abhorrence of sins committed, a firm purpose not to sin again in the future and trust in the help of God. It is nourished by hope in divine mercy. (1430-1433, 1490)
Q: What forms does penance take in the Christian life?
A: Penance can be expressed in many and various ways but above all in fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. These and many other forms of penance can be practiced in the daily life of a Christian, particularly during the time of Lent and on the penitential day of Friday. (1434-1439)
Q: What are the essential elements of the sacrament of Reconciliation?
A: The essential elements are two: the acts of the penitent who comes to repentance through the action of the Holy Spirit, and the absolution of the priest who in the name of Christ grants forgiveness and determines the ways of making satisfaction. (1440-1449)
Q: What are the acts of the penitent?
A: They are: a careful examination of conscience; contrition (or repentance), which is perfect when it is motivated by love of God and imperfect if it rests on other motives and which includes the determination not to sin again; confession, which consists in the telling of one’s sins to the priest; and satisfaction or the carrying out of certain acts of penance which the confessor imposes upon the penitent to repair the damage caused by sin. (1450-1460, 1487-1492)
Q: Which sins must be confessed?
A: All grave sins not yet confessed, which a careful examination of conscience brings to mind, must be brought to the sacrament of Penance. The confession of serious sins is the only ordinary way to obtain forgiveness. (1456)
Q: When is a person obliged to confess mortal sins?
A: Each of the faithful who has reached the age of discretion is bound to confess his or her mortal sins at least once a year and always before receiving Holy Communion. (1457)
Q: Why can venial sins also be the object of sacramental confession?
A: The confession of venial sins is strongly recommended by the Church, even if this is not strictly necessary, because it helps us to form a correct conscience and to fight against evil tendencies. It allows us to be healed by Christ and to progress in the life of the Spirit. (1458)
Q: Who is the minister of this sacrament?
A: Christ has entrusted the ministry of Reconciliation to his Apostles, to the bishops who are their successors and to the priests who are the collaborators of the bishops, all of whom become thereby instruments of the mercy and justice of God. They exercise their power of forgiving sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. (1461-1466, 1495)
Q: To whom is the absolution of some sins reserved?
A: The absolution of certain particularly grave sins (like those punished by excommunication) is reserved to the Apostolic See or to the local bishop or to priests who are authorized by them. Any priest, however, can absolve a person who is in danger of death from any sin and excommunication. (1463)
Q: Is a confessor bound to secrecy?
A: Given the delicacy and greatness of this ministry and the respect due to people every confessor, without any exception and under very severe penalties, is bound to maintain “the sacramental seal” which means absolute secrecy about the sins revealed to him in confession. (1467)
Q: What are the effects of this sacrament?
A: The effects of the sacrament of Penance are: reconciliation with God and therefore the forgiveness of sins; reconciliation with the Church; recovery, if it has been lost, of the state of grace; remission of the eternal punishment merited by mortal sins, and remission, at least in part, of the temporal punishment which is the consequence of sin; peace, serenity of conscience and spiritual consolation; and an increase of spiritual strength for the struggle of Christian living. (1468-1470, 1496)
Q: Can this sacrament be celebrated in some cases with a general confession and general absolution?
A: In cases of serious necessity (as in imminent danger of death) recourse may be had to a communal celebration of Reconciliation with general confession and general absolution, as long as the norms of the Church are observed and there is the intention of individually confessing one’s grave sins in due time. (1480-1484)
Q: What are indulgences?
A: Indulgences are the remission before God of the temporal punishment due to sins whose guilt has already been forgiven. The faithful Christian who is duly disposed gains the indulgence under prescribed conditions for either himself or the departed. Indulgences are granted through the ministry of the Church which, as the dispenser of the grace of redemption, distributes the treasury of the merits of Christ and the saints. (1471-1479, 1498)
(the numbers refer to paragraphs in the Catechism of the Catholic Church):
Q: What is the name of this sacrament?
A: It is called the sacrament of Penance, the sacrament of Reconciliation, the sacrament of Forgiveness, the sacrament of Confession, and the sacrament of Conversion. (1422-1424)
Q: Why is there a sacrament of Reconciliation after Baptism?
A: Since the new life of grace received in Baptism does not abolish the weakness of human nature nor the inclination to sin (that is, concupiscence), Christ instituted this sacrament for the conversion of the baptized who have been separated from him by sin. (1425-1426, 1484)
Q: When did he institute this sacrament?
A: The risen Lord instituted this sacrament on the evening of Easter when he showed himself to his Apostles and said to them, “Receive the Holy Spirit. If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained” (John 20:22-23). (1485) 299. Do the baptized have need of conversion? The call of Christ to conversion continues to resound in the lives of the baptized. Conversion is a continuing obligation for the whole Church. She is holy but includes sinners in her midst. (1427-1429)
Q: What is interior penance?
A: It is the movement of a “contrite heart” (Psalm 51:17) drawn by divine grace to respond to the merciful love of God. This entails sorrow for and abhorrence of sins committed, a firm purpose not to sin again in the future and trust in the help of God. It is nourished by hope in divine mercy. (1430-1433, 1490)
Q: What forms does penance take in the Christian life?
A: Penance can be expressed in many and various ways but above all in fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. These and many other forms of penance can be practiced in the daily life of a Christian, particularly during the time of Lent and on the penitential day of Friday. (1434-1439)
Q: What are the essential elements of the sacrament of Reconciliation?
A: The essential elements are two: the acts of the penitent who comes to repentance through the action of the Holy Spirit, and the absolution of the priest who in the name of Christ grants forgiveness and determines the ways of making satisfaction. (1440-1449)
Q: What are the acts of the penitent?
A: They are: a careful examination of conscience; contrition (or repentance), which is perfect when it is motivated by love of God and imperfect if it rests on other motives and which includes the determination not to sin again; confession, which consists in the telling of one’s sins to the priest; and satisfaction or the carrying out of certain acts of penance which the confessor imposes upon the penitent to repair the damage caused by sin. (1450-1460, 1487-1492)
Q: Which sins must be confessed?
A: All grave sins not yet confessed, which a careful examination of conscience brings to mind, must be brought to the sacrament of Penance. The confession of serious sins is the only ordinary way to obtain forgiveness. (1456)
Q: When is a person obliged to confess mortal sins?
A: Each of the faithful who has reached the age of discretion is bound to confess his or her mortal sins at least once a year and always before receiving Holy Communion. (1457)
Q: Why can venial sins also be the object of sacramental confession?
A: The confession of venial sins is strongly recommended by the Church, even if this is not strictly necessary, because it helps us to form a correct conscience and to fight against evil tendencies. It allows us to be healed by Christ and to progress in the life of the Spirit. (1458)
Q: Who is the minister of this sacrament?
A: Christ has entrusted the ministry of Reconciliation to his Apostles, to the bishops who are their successors and to the priests who are the collaborators of the bishops, all of whom become thereby instruments of the mercy and justice of God. They exercise their power of forgiving sins in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. (1461-1466, 1495)
Q: To whom is the absolution of some sins reserved?
A: The absolution of certain particularly grave sins (like those punished by excommunication) is reserved to the Apostolic See or to the local bishop or to priests who are authorized by them. Any priest, however, can absolve a person who is in danger of death from any sin and excommunication. (1463)
Q: Is a confessor bound to secrecy?
A: Given the delicacy and greatness of this ministry and the respect due to people every confessor, without any exception and under very severe penalties, is bound to maintain “the sacramental seal” which means absolute secrecy about the sins revealed to him in confession. (1467)
Q: What are the effects of this sacrament?
A: The effects of the sacrament of Penance are: reconciliation with God and therefore the forgiveness of sins; reconciliation with the Church; recovery, if it has been lost, of the state of grace; remission of the eternal punishment merited by mortal sins, and remission, at least in part, of the temporal punishment which is the consequence of sin; peace, serenity of conscience and spiritual consolation; and an increase of spiritual strength for the struggle of Christian living. (1468-1470, 1496)
Q: Can this sacrament be celebrated in some cases with a general confession and general absolution?
A: In cases of serious necessity (as in imminent danger of death) recourse may be had to a communal celebration of Reconciliation with general confession and general absolution, as long as the norms of the Church are observed and there is the intention of individually confessing one’s grave sins in due time. (1480-1484)
Q: What are indulgences?
A: Indulgences are the remission before God of the temporal punishment due to sins whose guilt has already been forgiven. The faithful Christian who is duly disposed gains the indulgence under prescribed conditions for either himself or the departed. Indulgences are granted through the ministry of the Church which, as the dispenser of the grace of redemption, distributes the treasury of the merits of Christ and the saints. (1471-1479, 1498)
Fr. Ricardo and Fr. Mateja from Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish discuss Reconciliation.